Home Remodeling – 5 Tips for Emotional Coping

Have you ever watched “The Property Brothers” on HGTV? I have recently discovered this show, in which people find a “fixer-upper” home, and begin a stressful remodeling project, rather than buy a much more expensive home already remodeled.

Do you have the thought of remodeling an older home? If you do not have the safety and security of the experts on “The Property Brothers” TV show, here are some tips that may help you cope with the stress of a renovation.

Tip #1: Research, Research, Research your contractor!
Find licensed and insured general contractors with a track record of excellent work and recommendations. Interview people who have used these contractors, and ask if they will let you stop over to see the work. Also, you may want to check their licenses with the state and local authorities to make sure that their credentials are current. Contact the Better Business Bureau to view any current open complaints.

Tip #2: Plan your designs carefully. There are websites that have pictures of ideas and design layouts. In addition, you may want to hire an interior designer by the hour for this phase of the project.

Tip #3: Be realistic with your “bank account to dream home ratio”. I just made up that term! You may have millionaire tastes and dreams with a middle class budget. Do your research on the materials and labor costs of each idea, and check your finances with full self awareness and honesty. Hiring a Certified Financial Planner is always a good idea. Home remodeling time may be the impetus to really did into your financial truth.

Tip #4: Learn about Permits in your county, and the requirements. A close friend recently interviewed about 6 different kitchen remodeling firms, and was told many different stories about the need to pull permits. There is only one truth in your municipality or county. Call the permit department directly for the truth. Selling your home years later may be a nightmare if you have not pulled required permits.

Tip #5: Adequate sleep, good nutrition, life balance and stress management techniques need to be integrated into the busy schedule you will encounter. You need to be well rested and healthy in order to make wise decisions. Sleep deprivation, poor eating and stress may result in impulsive decisions that may cause you much unhappiness.

Hopefully, these 5 tips will be helpful when embarking on the very challenging adventure of home remodeling. May your dream home bring you much joy and fulfillment!


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